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Dating again at 40, the first month

I downloaded Hinge at 9:14 on a Wednesday night, sitting on the end of the bed in my new rental in Northcote, with a glass of tap water on the bedside table because I'd forgotten to buy anything else.

Read the piece →7 min · 28 Apr 2026