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His·Journey · Sydney est. 2025The Ledger · The Room · The Pledge§ For men in transition

© 2026 HisJourney · Vol. II

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§ 01 · In crisis
A guided journey

Grief: Losing a Parent.

The death you knew was coming. The year that follows.

Length
About 10 weeks
Modules
7 · 42m
Done
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7 modules · arc reads left → right
  1. The arc
  2. 01The first 72 hours←
  3. 02The funeral
  4. 03The estate
  5. 04The other parent
  6. 05Your siblings
  7. 06The grief itself
  8. 07A year on

The first 72 hours and the funeral. The estate and what being executor actually involves. The other parent, who has just become your responsibility in a different way. Your siblings, the inheritance moment, the family fault lines. What grief actually feels like at month one, month six, month twelve, told straight. Anniversaries. Identity. What stayed and what changed.

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§ 01What you'll learn
  1. 01The 72-hour operational checklist after the death
  2. 02What being executor actually involves (AU probate)
  3. 03How to handle the inheritance conversation without breaking the family
  4. 04What grief looks like at different month markers
  5. 05What to expect of your remaining parent
  6. 06How to mark the first anniversary
§ 02Who it's for
  1. 01Parent has just died
  2. 02Parent is dying and you want to prepare
  3. 03Six months in, wondering if you're grieving wrong
§ 03 - The modules

7 sessions, in order.

Begin
  1. 01

    The first 72 hours

    The death, the funeral home, the people, what not to decide. The decisions that can wait, and the few that can't.

    5 min→
  2. 02

    The funeral

    What's required, what's optional, what people actually need. The day itself, in the order it happens.

    6 min→
  3. 03

    The estate

    Executor role, probate, the timeline, what slows it down. The Australian process in plain English.

    7 min→
  4. 04

    The other parent

    What changes for them, what's now your job. The role you've quietly inherited.

    6 min→
  5. 05

    Your siblings

    The inheritance moment, the family fault lines, how to not destroy the family in the year that follows.

    6 min→
  6. 06

    The grief itself

    Month one, month six, month twelve. What it actually feels like. Why it ambushes you on a Tuesday afternoon.

    7 min→
  7. 07

    A year on

    Anniversaries, identity, what stayed and what changed. The first time the date comes around.

    5 min→