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His·Journey · Sydney est. 2025The Ledger · The Room · The Pledge§ For men in transition

© 2026 HisJourney · Vol. II

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§ 02 · New chapter
A guided journey

First-Time Father.

Nobody really prepares you for this.

Length
About 5 weeks
Modules
6 · 29m
Done
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6 modules · arc reads left → right
  1. The arc
  2. 01The third-trimester prep←
  3. 02The day itself
  4. 03The first six weeks
  5. 04Relationships, shifting
  6. 05Staying yourself
  7. 06Money, leave, paperwork

Third trimester to the first three months with a newborn. Hospital bag and the go plan. What you'll be asked to do at the birth. The 4am rotation. Why the relationship with your partner shifts and what conversations to have early. The bare minimum that keeps you yourself. The boring paperwork that protects everything else.

Begin →
§ 01What you'll learn
  1. 01The actual logistics of the third trimester
  2. 02What you'll do at the birth (and what's normal to feel)
  3. 03How the first six weeks really go
  4. 04How relationships shift: with her, with mates, with work
  5. 05How to keep your own head above water
  6. 06Money, leave, and the boring-but-critical setup
§ 02Who it's for
  1. 01Pregnant partner, baby on the way
  2. 02Newborn at home, sleep-deprived, figuring it out
  3. 03Three months in, still nobody's told you the rules
§ 03 - The modules

6 sessions, in order.

Begin
  1. 01

    The third-trimester prep

    Hospital bag, car seat install, the go-plan, and which jobs actually need doing before week one.

    4 min @ 250 wpm→
  2. 02

    The day itself

    What happens at hospital, what you'll do, what's normal to feel, and what not to film.

    5 min @ 250 wpm→
  3. 03

    The first six weeks

    Sleep, feeding, the 4am rotation, and where your job actually starts and hers ends.

    6 min @ 250 wpm→
  4. 04

    Relationships, shifting

    Partner, mates, parents. The conversations to have early so the cracks do not become canyons.

    5 min @ 250 wpm→
  5. 05

    Staying yourself

    Sleep, training, work, headspace. The bare minimum to stay recognisable to yourself.

    4 min @ 250 wpm→
  6. 06

    Money, leave, paperwork

    Parental leave, birth certificate, Medicare, childcare waitlists. The Australian admin in plain English.

    5 min @ 250 wpm→