§ 03 · Long game

A guided learning module

Single Again at 40.

Dating and meeting women in your forties, without the pickup-artist theatre.

About 8 weeks6 lessons · 34mFree

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About 8 weeks

Lessons

6 · 34m

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The arc · 6 lessons

01Where you're actually starting 02The app question 03Meeting women through life 04The first six dates 05The kids conversation 06The second chapter

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§ 01 · What you'll learn

01How to take stock honestly of where you're actually starting from

02What works on the apps at 40+ (and what wastes everyone's time)

03How to meet women through real life — and why that often beats the apps

04The first six dates: what to look for, what to skip, what to ask

05How to handle the kids conversation early without scaring her off

06What a good second chapter looks like at 50

§ 02 · Who it's for

01Newly divorced, dating again for the first time in 15+ years

02Long-term single who's ready to actually do the work this time

03Widowed and figuring out when and how to start again

§ 03 → The lessons

6 sessions, in order.

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01

Where you're actually starting

Newly divorced vs long single vs widowed vs late bloomer. Different baselines, different first moves.

5 min 02

The app question

Hinge and Bumble at 40+. What works, what wastes everyone's time. Profile photos, prompts, the conversation that turns into a date.

6 min 03

Meeting women through life

Friend-of-a-friend, gym, run club, dinner party, work-adjacent introduction. Often beats the apps for men 40+.

6 min 04

The first six dates

What to look for, what to skip, what to ask, when to pay, what kind of date to plan.

6 min 05

The kids conversation

If you have them: when to mention them, when to introduce them, how the rhythm of dating changes when you've got 50/50 custody.

5 min 06

The second chapter

What good looks like at 50. The patience and standards you didn't have at 25.

6 min

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Single Again at 40.

6 sessions, in order.

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The first 30 days after she says it's over

The conversation you saw coming

The conversation you didn't