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§ 03 · Long game
A guided journey

Quitting Weed — The First 90 Days.

Not stoner-shaming, not zero-tolerance. A 90-day field manual.

Length
About 12 weeks
Modules
6 · 33m
Done
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6 modules · arc reads left → right
  1. The arc
  2. 01The honest audit←
  3. 02The 30-day clear-out
  4. 03The social architecture
  5. 04The replacement problem
  6. 05The relapse map
  7. 06The 90-day verdict

The honest audit. The 30-day clear-out and what changes in your sleep, your mood, your weight, your motivation. The social architecture of telling people without making it weird. The replacement problem — what you reach for at 9pm now. The relapse map. The 90-day verdict and what good looks like. Behavioural protocol for the daily-smoker, the weekend-smoker and the anxiety-smoker.

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§ 01What you'll learn
  1. 01How to audit your weed use honestly
  2. 02What 30 days off does to sleep, mood, weight and energy
  3. 03How to tell partners, mates and yourself without making it weird
  4. 04The four predictable relapse points and how to plan around them
  5. 05What to substitute, what doesn't help, what makes it worse
  6. 06When DIY is enough and when to call a GP
§ 02Who it's for
  1. 01Daily smoker who wants to stop and can't quite get there
  2. 02Weekend-only smoker noticing it's creeping into the week
  3. 03Smokes for sleep or anxiety and ready to find another lever
§ 03 - The modules

6 sessions, in order.

Begin
  1. 01

    The honest audit

    How much, how often, what triggers it, what role it actually plays. The number you've been rounding down for years.

    5 min→
  2. 02

    The 30-day clear-out

    What to expect physically and mentally. Sleep weird in week one. Dreams come back. Appetite shifts. Mood by week three.

    6 min→
  3. 03

    The social architecture

    Telling your partner, navigating the smoking mate, the festival in five months, the dinner-party joint passed your way.

    6 min→
  4. 04

    The replacement problem

    What you reach for at 9pm now. The trap of switching to nightly drinks. What works. What doesn't.

    5 min→
  5. 05

    The relapse map

    Four predictable failure points: weeks 6-9, the "I can have just one", the milestone, the sleep collapse.

    6 min→
  6. 06

    The 90-day verdict

    What good looks like at day 90. When to keep going, when to dial back, when to call a GP.

    5 min→