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© 2026 HisJourney · Vol. II

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§ 03 · Long game
A guided journey

Career Pivot at 45+.

Starting again, not over. Without the LinkedIn theatre.

About 10 weeks6 modules · 34mFreeLeaderboard →
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About 10 weeks
Modules
6 · 34m
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The arc · 6 modules
01The honest reason02Mapping what you actually have03The shape of the pivot04The runway maths05Telling people06The first 12 months of the new thing
Begin the journey →
§ 01 · What you'll learn
01How to be honest about why you're moving
02The capital and skills inventory you actually have
03The four pivot shapes (adjacent, sector, contracting, business)
04The runway maths for going slower in exchange for going right
05How to talk about it without scaring your partner
06The 12-month test for whether the pivot is working
§ 02 · Who it's for
01On the wrong side of 45 and looking at another decade in the same role
02Recently made redundant and don't want to repeat
03Corporate man who wants to start something
§ 03 → The modules

6 sessions, in order.

Begin →
01
The honest reason
Boredom, ceiling, redundancy risk, ill health, meaning. The reason underneath the reason you tell yourself.
5 min→
02
Mapping what you actually have
Skills, network, capital, runway, family bandwidth. The inventory before the imagination.
6 min→
03
The shape of the pivot
Adjacent move, sector change, contracting, business, study. The four shapes and which one fits the inventory.
6 min→
04
The runway maths
Months you have, what to cut, what to keep. The numbers behind going slower in exchange for going right.
6 min→
05
Telling people
Partner, parents, kids, current employer. In that order, with scripts.
5 min→
06
The first 12 months of the new thing
What to expect, when to bail, how to know it's working. The "is this working" test that doesn't punish slow starts.
6 min→
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