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One short, practical essay every Friday. No spam, no upsells, easy to leave.

His·Journey · Sydney est. 2025The Tracker · The Pledge§ For men in transition

© 2026 HisJourney · Vol. II

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§ 01 · In crisis
A guided journey

Depression — What to Do First.

Action protocol for when your head is the trunk of the problem.

About 10 weeks7 modules · 43mFreeLeaderboard →
Length
About 10 weeks
Modules
7 · 43m
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The arc · 7 modules
01Naming it02The 72-hour stabilise03The GP visit04The therapy question05Telling people06The recovery protocol07When it comes back
Begin the journey →
§ 01 · What you'll learn
01How to tell depression from sadness, burnout or grief
02The 72-hour stabilise: sleep, food, movement, the GP call
03How the Mental Health Treatment Plan actually works (AU)
04Therapy types — CBT, ACT, IPT — and what to ask before booking
05How to tell partner, family and work without it becoming the topic
06How recovery actually looks (it's not linear and it's not vibes)
07What to do the second time, when relapse arrives
§ 02 · Who it's for
01In a depressive episode right now and trying to take a first step
02Pretty sure you've been depressed for months but haven't named it
03Out of the worst of it and want to know how to stay out
§ 03 → The modules

7 sessions, in order.

Begin →
01
Naming it
Depression vs sadness vs burnout vs grief. The PHQ-9 markers. Why naming it correctly changes the next step.
6 min→
02
The 72-hour stabilise
Sleep, food, movement, sunlight. The smallest possible base. What to do today, this afternoon, before anything else.
6 min→
03
The GP visit
How to book it, what to say, the Mental Health Treatment Plan, the medication question.
6 min→
04
The therapy question
CBT, ACT, IPT, schema. The Medicare-rebated psychologist sessions. How to find someone you don't hate by session three.
6 min→
05
Telling people
Partner, family, work. Who needs the full version, who needs the headline. Scripts that don't make it the topic.
6 min→
06
The recovery protocol
The slow climb. Non-linear. The metrics that matter. The "it's working" markers most men miss.
7 min→
07
When it comes back
Relapse as part of the picture, not a verdict. The early-warning checklist. Why the second time is shorter.
6 min→
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