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- separation14 replies · 2 days ago
First Christmas after she left. What worked for you?
Kids are with their mum on the day. I’ve been thinking about how to make the lead-up feel less like a countdown. Anyone been here?
— M.K.
- fatherhood8 replies · 5 days ago
Asking for a raise when your partner doesn’t earn
My wife stopped work for the kids three years ago. I’ve been holding off asking for more because it feels heavier than it should. Curious how others have framed it.
— T.B.
- fitness-40-plus22 replies · 1 week ago
Sciatic pain — physio or osteo first?
Three weeks of low-grade right leg pain. Sitting all day. Looking for someone who’s had the same and can tell me which professional helped, not what AI says.
— R.L.
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