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His·Journey · Sydney est. 2025The Ledger · The Room · The Pledge§ For men in transition

© 2026 HisJourney · Vol. II

The next chapter starts when you say it does.

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§ 01 · In crisis
A guided journey

Divorce Survival Guide.

From paperwork to the new chapter, without losing the plot.

Length
About 8 weeks
Modules
8 · 42m
Done
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8 modules · arc reads left → right
  1. The arc
  2. 01How divorce works in Australia←
  3. 02Property settlement basics
  4. 03Parenting arrangements
  5. 04Child support, explained
  6. 05The three paths: mediation, lawyer-led, litigation
  7. 06What divorce actually costs
  8. 07Starting over financially
  9. 08A year on

From the formal paperwork to the year after the orders are signed. How AU divorce actually works. Property settlement, parenting arrangements, child support: in plain English. The three paths (mediation, lawyer-led, litigation) and what each costs. How to keep the bill under twenty grand. What rebuilding really looks like twelve months in.

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§ 01What you'll learn
  1. 01How divorce actually works in Australia (timeline, courts, paperwork)
  2. 02Property settlement basics: what's on the table, how it gets divided
  3. 03Parenting orders, consent orders, and when it goes to court
  4. 04Cost ranges for the three paths (mediation, lawyer-led, litigation)
  5. 05Child support: how it's calculated and why your tax return matters
  6. 06Rebuilding finances and identity in the year after
§ 02Who it's for
  1. 01Already separated and the formal process is starting
  2. 02Have a court date or a mediator booked
  3. 03Done the legals and now figuring out what life looks like
§ 03 - The modules

8 sessions, in order.

Begin
  1. 01

    How divorce works in Australia

    The Family Law Act in plain English, the 12-month rule, what no-fault really means, and realistic timelines from separation to final order.

    5 min→
  2. 02

    Property settlement basics

    The asset pool, the four-step process, why 95 percent of matters settle, and how to lock in a binding outcome.

    6 min→
  3. 03

    Parenting arrangements

    Parenting plans versus consent orders versus court orders, the best-interests test, and what 50/50 really looks like in practice.

    6 min→
  4. 04

    Child support, explained

    How the formula actually works, what taxable income inputs drive the number, and when a change of assessment is worth filing.

    5 min→
  5. 05

    The three paths: mediation, lawyer-led, litigation

    Cost ranges, timelines, and suitability for each path, plus how to handle a partner who refuses to engage.

    5 min→
  6. 06

    What divorce actually costs

    Filing fees, solicitor rates, mediation, expert reports, and what it really takes to keep total spend under twenty thousand.

    4 min→
  7. 07

    Starting over financially

    Single income, half the assets, and a list of fixes for mortgage, super, insurance, and will in the first year post-orders.

    6 min→
  8. 08

    A year on

    Identity, dating, friendships, kids, and what good looks like twelve months after the orders are sealed.

    5 min→