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§ 03 · Long game
A guided journey

After Divorce: The First Year Back.

Single again, not starting over. Identity, money, friendship, dating, kids.

About 8 weeks5 modules · 30mFreeLeaderboard →
Length
About 8 weeks
Modules
5 · 30m
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The arc · 5 modules
01Who you are now02The new financial floor03Dating again, when you're ready04Friendships05Kids in the rotation
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§ 01 · What you'll learn
01The identity work that doesn't get done during the legal process
02How to rebuild the financial floor on a single income
03How to date again without making it weird
04Which friendships survive and how to find new ones
05How to make 50/50 work over years, not weeks
§ 02 · Who it's for
0112+ months post-separation, asking "what now"
02Consent orders signed, life starting again
03Ex has moved on and you are still standing still
§ 03 → The modules

5 sessions, in order.

Begin →
01
Who you are now
Identity reset. What you kept, what you're rebuilding. The man on the other side of the legal process.
6 min→
02
The new financial floor
Single income, post-settlement budget, super recovery. The honest numbers and the realistic five-year plan.
7 min→
03
Dating again, when you're ready
The apps, the awkward, the kids question, the boundaries. The first six dates and what to learn from each.
6 min→
04
Friendships
The ones that survive, the ones that don't, the new ones. The audit no one wants to do at 45.
5 min→
05
Kids in the rotation
The rhythm of 50/50. Your house as their second home. The long view across years, not weeks.
6 min→
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