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His·Journey · Sydney est. 2025The Ledger · The Room · The Pledge§ For men in transition

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§ 03 · Long game
A guided journey

After Divorce: The First Year Back.

Single again, not starting over. Identity, money, friendship, dating, kids.

Length
About 8 weeks
Modules
5 · 30m
Done
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5 modules · arc reads left → right
  1. The arc
  2. 01Who you are now←
  3. 02The new financial floor
  4. 03Dating again, when you're ready
  5. 04Friendships
  6. 05Kids in the rotation

The identity work that doesn't get done during the legal process. Rebuilding the financial floor on a single income. Dating again, when you're ready, with the kids question and the boundaries. Friendships, the ones that survive, the ones that don't, the new ones. Kids in the rotation, the rhythm of 50/50, your house as their second home, the long view. Spawned from Divorce Survival module 7, expanded into a Journey of its own.

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§ 01What you'll learn
  1. 01The identity work that doesn't get done during the legal process
  2. 02How to rebuild the financial floor on a single income
  3. 03How to date again without making it weird
  4. 04Which friendships survive and how to find new ones
  5. 05How to make 50/50 work over years, not weeks
§ 02Who it's for
  1. 0112+ months post-separation, asking "what now"
  2. 02Consent orders signed, life starting again
  3. 03Ex has moved on and you are still standing still
§ 03 - The modules

5 sessions, in order.

Begin
  1. 01

    Who you are now

    Identity reset. What you kept, what you're rebuilding. The man on the other side of the legal process.

    6 min→
  2. 02

    The new financial floor

    Single income, post-settlement budget, super recovery. The honest numbers and the realistic five-year plan.

    7 min→
  3. 03

    Dating again, when you're ready

    The apps, the awkward, the kids question, the boundaries. The first six dates and what to learn from each.

    6 min→
  4. 04

    Friendships

    The ones that survive, the ones that don't, the new ones. The audit no one wants to do at 45.

    5 min→
  5. 05

    Kids in the rotation

    The rhythm of 50/50. Your house as their second home. The long view across years, not weeks.

    6 min→